Grace is suffered in that it is passively received rather than actively controlled...There are no exceptions to the rule of availability, interdependence, co-composition, passibility, and passivity.  This means in turn, that there are no exceptions to the rule of grace.  Every object is shaped by forces and relations that exceed its knowledge and control.  Every object suffers the conditioning and enabling gifts of the other objects that compose, sustain, and cannibalize it.

Adam S. Miller, Speculative Grace, pg. 79