To have an endless empathy, [Christ] would have to know a terror and abandonment and hopelessness beyond human conceiving, such that not mortal tongue could say, you don't know what I have known, you haven't been where I have been.  Exactly how this would be possible, who can say, but that is what He would have to experience.

Terryl & Fiona Givens, The God Who Weeps, pg. 28